One morning you wake up, you look in the mirror and you ask yourself who is the arrogant bitch looking back at you. Well it’s a not so exquisite version of yourself. You discover within yourself what you despise the most in others and it happens just because people around you turned arrogance and vanity into an artform. This cocktail might seem the perfect path to success for some of us, but it’s just a certain way to self-destruction. So the star of the day is the well-known Arrogance which keeps on surprising us every single day. This is a how to avoid becoming an arrogant lady tutorial.
Understand the phenomenon
A short analysis of this social disease would look like this
Arrogance means “bigging yourself up”—whether publicly or just inside your own mind. Often it involves knocking others down at the same time.
The act or habit of … making undue claims in an overbearing manner;
that species of pride which consists in exorbitant claims of rank, dignity, estimation, or power, or which exalts the worth or importance of the person to an undue degree;
proud contempt of others.
Recognize the components of arrogance
Like all chief features, arrogance involves the following components:
Early negative experiences
Misconceptions about the nature of self, life or others
A constant fear and sense of insecurity
A maladaptive strategy to protect the self
A persona to hide all of the above in adulthood
Analyze the Strategy
The basic strategy for coping with this fear of vulnerability to others’ perceptions is to manipulate others’ perceptions—to ensure that there is never anything for them to disapprove of or criticise.
I must draw attention only to my winning qualities.
I must never show my real self, which I know to be imperfect and weak and flawed.
I must always appear to be “better” in some way than my rivals.
Discover the Positive and Negative Poles
Arrogance, like all character flaws, is inherently negative. Nevertheless, it still has the potential for a positive outcome.
The positive outcome of arrogance is PRIDE, while the more negative outcomes can be referred to as VANITY.
Analyze yourself, your actions and your hole life and decide if you recognize yourself in the lines above.
Decide if you wanna live as an arrogant and manipulative bitch, or just as yourself.
Our personal opinion
We all have the potential for arrogant tendencies, but in people with a strong fear of showing ordinary vulnerability, Arrogance can become a dominant pattern. Don’t let Arrogance to dominate your personal life, your work and your social life. We believe that we can succeed in life or just simply exist and enjoy yourself and the people around you with no self-destructive habits as this so very craved Arrogance.